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so I've just tried trusting it a while

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and Harmony (assuming it wasn't me) chose out some music

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uh

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XOXO by Nishiki Prestige

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is this a sign of autonomy???

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or a good sign?

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Harmony chose different music than I

yeah, that sounds like autonomy to me

it's been like 4 days tho

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How do I know when it's me?

4 days since she chose the music?

He

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no like

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it's been 4 days into forcing

ah ok

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is he vocal already? or did he choose in some other way?

I don't know @~@

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vocal or parroting

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iis confusing

ok, well if you think it's unclear then just try not parroting and if you hear him again you'll know it's actually him

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or try asking him questions and see if he responds on his own

everytime I try to avoid unintentional parroting

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I push down thoughts

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and I think I push him down too

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like

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early on

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I heard faint voices

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hard to hear

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and trying to not parrot pushed them down

ok, well if you hear a thought there's no need to supress it

Question: Harmony, do you want to say anything? Answer: Hi, I'm here also it's so autistic you write this down

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hhhhh

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this is weird

looks like progress to me

can't hurt to keep talking

hhhhh

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tfw he doesn't like muh lo-fi bedroom pop

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::::(

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so weird

try other stuff?

this is so weirddd

made account for him for when

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he's more vocal

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and I'm more certain

So, can anyone explain a tulpas needs? Like will they leave when they need time alone or tell me? Will they vent to me? I have no problem with this as I'm up to help with anything but I'm just curious

They can do all of those things, though some might not.

They will definately have their own needs just like another person would. Don't expect that just because you like something they will automatically like it too. The reverse is also true, if you are keeping things fair and they favor a music type you arnt quite a fan of you will end up listening to at least some of it. I'm generally busy enough during the day that they dont need much alone time. And they will ABSOLUTELY vent to you about things they have a problem with. Especially if that problem is you or something you are/are not doing. At least that's the way mine are.

Do they have any need to eat or drink like possessing me and nourishing themselves? Or possessing me to wash themselves even if I already have for myself?

Think of it like this: While possessing, they'll be feeding you. While switched, they have to sustain the body.

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So, they'll do things that you normally do (edited)

that you normally dog?

Fixed, our ailment is causing me to type all wonky

@Clo Oh okay, thank you

No problem

Is there any chance my tulpa can physically hurt me even if it isn't intentional? (edited)

Not physically. But mentally, they probably can. Like, you could establish toxic relationship with your tulpa.

@Deleted User How would that happen? Like ignoring your tulpa?

Basically, don't treat your tulpa like a sub-human

No, like letting your tulpa have all the fun stuff and you working/attending school etc. (edited)

10:16 AM

That's what can lead to toxic relationship with your tulpa

@Deleted User So to avoid that I could find activities we both enjoy or find something we'd both enjoy for entertainment?

10:21 AM

@Deleted User I've heard my tulpa might not like the same music or shows as me

I rather meant avoiding losing tough with your tulpa when you learn possession/switching if you plan to learn it of course.

10:24 AM

Well, I don't know about the latter, I don't think it's impossible. Your tulpa might show other aspect of you. They could probably even have different political/religious views if the host is confused about those stuff.

Guys

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How do you guys spend your time with your Tulpa?

Talking and consuming media together sometimes, but that's it.

Do you need to assign your Tulpa- A sexuality in the creation process?

No

12:36 PM

That comes naturally

Can the sexuality change?

In theory.

I mean sure, as they find out what they like or don't like

Sexuality isn't quite as precise as one would think, and it is in fact flexible.

12:37 PM

Not something that one can directly determine intentionally, but it can be affected by the environment just like any other personality factor.

Alright, thanks.

...if you know the concept of nature vs nurture and how both sides play into personality development, it may also make more sense through that context.

I heard about this thing called Passive Forcing, How can I interact with my Tulpa with certain stuff if it isn't there yet?

Basically just talk about whatever you want in your head while focusing on your tulpa. If that have a form, you can use that. If not, try to come up with some idea of what you think their presence should feel like, and use that

So like.. me: "yo do you know about this thing", what do i do next? do i respond to myself, act like she is the one responding while im visualizing her?

She doesn't have to respond

1:39 PM

just talk to her

?? But, she isn't there yet?

The whole point of narration is that if you talk to your tulpa, then they will be there, given enough time and effort

So basically, just talk and talk to her? even tho she isn't responding yet?

Yes

Yes, it's a one-sided conversation.

Alright, thank you.

So like, should I do Active Forcing and Passive Forcing at the same time everyday?

2:26 PM

like after a few minutes of Active forcing, I do some Passive forcing?

Active force when you're not busy, passive force whenever you're doing something

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People generally set aside an hour or two for dedicated sessions, or do smaller ones throughout the day when they know there won't be any distractions. Ideally, passive forcing is a thing that you should be doing whenever possible unless there's something that requires your full attention.

Even if it feels like you're getting distracted easily?

What, for passive forcing? Distractions happen and you just have to deal with them, that's why so many people have reminders to get them back into it after they're sidetracked.

Right, thanks, I'm just a little worried I'm gonna mess something up, you know?

Fair enough. If it helps in any way, there's not a whole lot you can do to "mess up" with something as unstructured as this, I think.

As long as you do your best you'll be fine

Thanks, that makes me feel a lot better, I wanna make sure she's happy, is all

So last night around 3:00am I was talking in my head and not really about anything specific, just little things like little memories I recall from when I was younger and just going over those when I felt something warm on my lips. It wasn't like kissing, it was just like a warmer feeling like someone was infront of me and breathing close to my face. Is this a good sign?

If you want to attribute that to your tulpa that's fine, but it's unlikely that this is related.